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Random Hookups Cheapen the Magic of Sex

One of the great aspects of living the college life is engaging in one of those magical nights. Yes, you guessed it, I'm talking about the magical night of a random hookup, where all the stars seem to align in your favor for just the right amount of time allowing you to get some much needed tail.

As Tiffany Ohara, a student columnist for the University of California in Santa Barbara's campus newspaper writes, college kids are no longer asking there friends if they got that goodnight kiss - they're asking much, much more. "Now the questions are, 'Dude, did you screw her? Did she give you head? Are her tits real?,'" she writes.

Random hookups may not be the key to improving your sexual confidence.

"Many people - mostly guys - feel that they have to have sex with tons of people in order to improve their performance and keep their partner satisfied when they finally decide to commit," she writes.

Finding yourself a little steady honey to get it on with regularly may benefit you both.

"The less experience you both have, the more you can explore together, which creates that much more intimacy and romance," Ohara says.

"Sex is emotional, physical and spiritual," she continues, "By taking your pants off, you are agreeing to become a part of your partner and to let your partner be a part of you," Ohara says.

"I apologize if I have killed your boner or your puffy pussy, but next time you’re about to get down with someone you hardly know, think about what I’ve told you. If hookups are all you can get, well then, I feel bad for you," she concludes.